WHO WAS WRONG?

How many times have you wanted to beat your head against the wall when a relationship failed? “What am I doing wrong,” runs through your mind!

I am sure it’s not until you get a little wiser and older when you finally understand that every relationship you had was doomed to fail because you overlooked a few things. It was those things that always took you from dating bliss to a relationship horror story!

It’s not that there are certain steps you must follow as much as knowing what they are and how to use them to benefit you! Specifically, are you aware of the proper dating etiquette that should be followed if you desire to have a happy relationship or marriage?

During my campus days, my friends and I would talk for hours about life and relationships. Somehow we figured out what worked and didn’t work. Many times we wanted to kick ourselves for being so darn stupid!

We realized, as you soon will, that relationships are easy when you enter into them with your eyes and ears wide open and leave the feelings at the door.

I guess you can call my friends and I traditional or old fashioned. However, what I can tell you is we had fewer problems in our lives as a result of following a process or certain traditional dating rules!

Anyhow what I can say is, “if you are sick and tired of getting involved in relationships that do not work then following the traditional dating rules process will help you to finally end up in a happy relationship”.

There are really one very important aspects to the “dating” that is the “how” and the “what” In other words, if you don’t understand how to carry on a conversation that creates attraction, then it really won’t matter what you talk about…because the woman you’re talking to won’t feel anything towards you.

The how of conversation includes but, is not limited to; your body language, eye contact, the funny style of communicating, flirting, sending mixed messages, directing the conversation and dealing with common questions and topics.

With that said, there are several topics that are great to discuss with women and for whatever reason, women tend to love drama, conflict, romance, famous people and their lives.

So it’s really quite easy to enjoy a dating with a woman about these topics. Say you are in a restaurant. Look around you, find a couple sitting at a table that looks like they’re on their first date.

Then, start making fun of how the guy is acting, how he’s dressed, his posture, or whatever. Talk about how the woman is thinking that he’s a fala and how he’s not getting any, no matter how many compliments he gives her.

Analyzing what’s going on with a close group of others is big fun, and women love it. Talk about the problems that others are going through when it comes to love and romance, then volunteer completely ridiculous theories about what’s going on.

Mention a friend you had who broke up with his girlfriend because she gained weight, then after. You’ve told the story; make up a random theory about how women who gain weight are actually lesbians. But, make sure whatever you invent is funny.

The point here is that women are naturally fascinated and drawn to certain topics... So use them. The real benefit of talking to women about topics that really interest them is that you can use all the other ideas that you’re learning while you’re talking! Topics to avoid; rape, kidnapping, stalking, death, chess, computers, your secret love and wrestling.

Never talk about topics that might really freak a woman out or topics that make you look like the biggest loser alive, especially in the beginning.

You’ll create bad vibes that will make any attraction that you’ve created instantly disappear. Others to really avoid include talking negatively about yourself, talking about how desperate you are or how long it’s been since you’ve been on a date, asking if she likes you or if you’re her “type” that makes you look insecure and needy.

Remember, the key to success with women is creating a powerful emotional attraction between you and her. If you don’t know how to do this, then nothing you do is going to help you very much.