HOW TO KEEP MEN AROUND

I recently read a bar line in this paper “where have all the men gone”, the author slightly but carefully summed it “The answer lies in how attraction between sexes actually happens”.

I am sure it is not until the girls got a little wiser than they will finally understand that every man you see is doomed to run because you overlook a few things and those things always toke you from dating bliss to a relationship horror story.

In our campus days, my friends and I would talk for hours about women. Somehow, we figured out what worked and did not work. Many times, we wanted to kick ourselves for being so stupid!
We realized, as you soon will, that relationships are easy when you enter into them with your eyes and ears wide open and leave the feelings at the door.

It is New Year, if you are sick and tired of getting involved in unhappy relationships then following the traditional rules will help you to finally end your spree.

There is really one very important aspect to keeping men around you that is the “how” and the “what” In other words, if you do not understand how to carry on a conversation that creates attraction, then it really won’t matter what you talk about because the man you are talking to will not feel anything towards you.

The how of conversation includes but, is not limited to; your body language, eye contact, the funny style of communicating, flirting, sending mixed messages, directing the conversation and dealing with common questions and topics.

With that said, there are several topics that are great to discuss with you and for whatever reason, men tend not to love drama, conflict, romance, famous people and their lives.

Therefore, it is really quite easy to enjoy a dating with a man about these topics if you have substantial influence over what to talk about. Analyzing what is going on within a social environment is big fun and men love it.

Talking about problems that others are going through when it comes to love and romance matters, know it that it is not cheap gossip for men too. Mentioning a friend you had who broke up with his boyfriend does not cost you a much because discussing why they actually broke will help you even further build fences against possible detractors.

The point here is that men are naturally fascinated and drawn to certain topics so use them. The real benefit of talking to men about such topics that really interest them is that you can use all the other ideas that you are learning while you are talking! Avoid topic that relate to stalking, football, or your secret love.

Never talk about topics that might really freak a man out or topics that make you look like the biggest loser alive, especially in the beginning. You will create bad vibes that will make any attraction that you have created instantly disappear.

Others to really avoid include talking negatively about yourself, talking about how desperate you are or how long it has been since you last had a date, asking if he likes you or if your are his type makes you look insecure and needy.

Remember, the key to success with men is creating a powerful emotional attraction between you and him not being seductive. If you do not know how to do this, then nothing you do is going to help you bring back these fugitives.